What is he thinking during no contact? Does he think about me at all or has he forgotten about me totally and moved on while I can’t stop thinking about him?
Is there any chance of getting back together with him? Have I made a mistake by keeping to the no touch rule?
Let me reassure you and inform you that the no touch rule was not a mistake, it was the best way to proceed.
All these inquiries are unavoidable because they originate from our wounded heart and dashed hopes. They originate from our grief and our dread of never getting back that feeling we experienced with a specific individual.
‘Out of sight, out of mind’ is repeating in your thoughts and you can’t help but think of the worst-case scenario.
That is why our initial reaction when somebody leaves is to go after them, get them back, prove that we are wonderful together and that our love is worth sticking for and worth the struggle.
But that’s precisely what we shouldn’t be doing since it will simply push them further away.
Given that my female mind is designed to smell bullshit, I realized that he was simply attempting to buy more time since he was uncertain about the notion of getting back together After a short amount of time, I provided him the address of my new work and urged him to contact me only if he really misses me.
Whether it's melancholy, a failed rebound relationship , or anything bad, some external element has to affect the male psyche during no contact.